Overcome the Devastation of Betrayal and Rebuild Your Life with this 7-Day Course
Is Betrayal Holding You Back?
It's Time to Heal
Has your partner's betrayal left you feeling shattered, lost, and unsure of how to move forward? You're not alone.
As someone who has walked this painful path, I understand how overwhelming betrayal can feel. But there is hope—and a way to heal.
Imagine waking up without the weight of hurt and confusion. Imagine having the tools to navigate your emotions, rebuild your confidence, and move forward with clarity and strength. That’s what my 7-Day Healing Journey is designed to help you achieve.
What You Can Expect:
Over the course of seven transformative days, we’ll work together to:
Stay Present and Be Kind to Yourself: Learn how to live in the moment and treat yourself with the compassion you deserve during this difficult time.
Communicate Effectively: Discover strategies to express your needs and concerns clearly, and to truly listen—whether you’re communicating with your partner or others in your life.
Set Healthy Boundaries: Reclaim your personal space and integrity by establishing boundaries that protect your well-being.
Rebuild Your Self-Image: Through reflective exercises, you'll begin to see yourself not through the lens of betrayal, but as a person of strength and resilience.
This course isn’t just about coping—it's about healing. It’s about moving from a place of pain to a place where you can find peace, empowerment, and a renewed sense of self.
Why This Course Is Different:
I’ve combined my years of study, professional training, and personal experience to create a unique approach to healing from betrayal. This isn’t just theory—it’s actionable guidance designed to make a difference in your life.
Special Bonus: When you enroll in the 7-day course, you’ll receive a 1-month free access to my upcoming Second Chance Collective Membership. Here, you'll find ongoing support, resources, and a community that understands exactly what you're going through.
My Promise to You:
I know how hard it is to trust again after betrayal, which is why I offer a money-back guarantee. If you don’t feel a positive shift after completing the course, I’ll refund your money, no questions asked. Your healing is my priority, and I stand by my commitment to help you move forward.
Take the First Step Toward Healing:
Don’t let the pain of betrayal define your future. Join me on this journey, and together, we’ll work toward a life where you feel safe, confident, and ready to embrace what comes next.
Thank you for allowing me to be part of your journey. I look forward to supporting you as you heal, rebuild trust, and create a stronger, healthier relationship with yourself and those around you.
Enroll now and start your 7-Day Healing Journey.
Let’s take this step together.
This course compliments my book, "Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partners' Betrayal: What To Do When Your World Falls Apart" where I offer practical advice and tips to help you move through all the emotions to the other side of betrayal.
Testimonials
Praise for Dealing with the "Devastation of Your Partner’s Betrayal: What to Do When Your World Falls Apart"
Dr. Kim Baer
New Jersey
Vanessa Cardenas brings her personal experience with betrayal, which has given her unique understanding and empathy for her clients' struggles, making her an invaluable resource for those seeking healing. Her approach is rooted in lived-through experience, extensive study, deep empathy, and compassionate understanding. This course offers helpful practical suggestions to move through the grieving and healing process. A must for anyone going through betrayal.
Clayre Reyes
Glow of Radiance, Founder & CEO
Truly a soothing and enlightening experience.
This book provided so much more than I expected, as it helped me dive deep into my inner psyche to find my worth, reminded me of the importance of self-care, and gave me insight on how to strengthen my relationship.
The author encourages readers to confront their feelings surrounding betrayal while also finding ways to nurture themselves through the process. She provides actionable advice such as regularly practicing self-love, taking time for yourself, setting boundaries with your partner, and understanding
that forgiveness is necessary for healing. In addition, she talks about different forms of communication both internally (regarding your thoughts) and externally (with your partner).
Furthermore, the author goes beyond just providing advice and discusses her own experiences with infidelity in her marriage. It's truly inspiring to see how she was able to use her adversity as an opportunity for growth in her life and marriage. She emphasizes that betrayal can be a painful experience but there are many paths forward depending on what works best for each person.
A Betrayal Coach is certainly an incredible resource if you're looking for assistance during this difficult time. Vanessa is that support that many need. Her book It's a must-read if you want to learn more about trusting yourself again after experiencing hurtful emotions from such a traumatic event. Then, if you decide to stay and work through your marriage successfully, that is a plus.
Maureen H
New York City
A Gift for all hearts - healed and healing!”
The author’s heart-centered approach and compassionate nature on the sensitive subjects of betrayal and infidelity clearly shine through in the writing. This combined with her raw authenticity, clever conveyance of experiential wisdom, and even her sense of humor kept me turning page after page.
The creative chapter layout and effortless flow of the information interwoven amongst quotes, journal prompts, and helpful resources make this both an easy read and a personal guidebook to keep handy for future reference. Her recap at the end of numerous examples in music, books, movies, and media events of the subliminal programming being fed to the culture scape about the complexities and nuances of these subjects and their effect on the human experience is second to none.
This is clearly a must-read for anyone with personal or professional skin in the game on this topic!
Ellen Imbiano
LMHC, CSAT, CPTT
Partner betrayal trauma has become far too common.
It is vital for those seeking help to have a valuable resource at a time
when they are most vulnerable.
Ms. Cardenas offers hope at a time when hope is in short supply.
Though this is one of the most difficult of life’s challenges, with time and proper support, healing can happen. [She] covers a range of topics that fit into small, digestible chapters. This gives the reader confidence that getting through the early stage of discovery is achievable and that positive growth is attainable.
Testimonials
Praise for Dealing with the "Devastation of Your Partner’s Betrayal: What to Do When Your World Falls Apart"
Dr. Kim Baer
New Jersey
Vanessa Cardenas brings her personal experience with betrayal, which has given her unique understanding and empathy for her clients' struggles, making her an invaluable resource for those seeking healing. Her approach is rooted in lived-through experience, extensive study, deep empathy, and compassionate understanding. This course offers helpful practical suggestions to move through the grieving and healing process. A must for anyone going through betrayal.
Clayre Reyes
Glow of Radiance, Founder & CEO
Truly a soothing and enlightening experience.
This book provided so much more than I expected, as it helped me dive deep into my inner psyche to find my worth, reminded me of the importance of self-care, and gave me insight on how to strengthen my relationship.
The author encourages readers to confront their feelings surrounding betrayal while also finding ways to nurture themselves through the process. She provides actionable advice such as regularly practicing self-love, taking time for yourself, setting boundaries with your partner, and understanding
that forgiveness is necessary for healing. In addition, she talks about different forms of communication both internally (regarding your thoughts) and externally (with your partner).
Furthermore, the author goes beyond just providing advice and discusses her own experiences with infidelity in her marriage. It's truly inspiring to see how she was able to use her adversity as an opportunity for growth in her life and marriage. She emphasizes that betrayal can be a painful experience but there are many paths forward depending on what works best for each person.
A Betrayal Coach is certainly an incredible resource if you're looking for assistance during this difficult time. Vanessa is that support that many need. Her book It's a must-read if you want to learn more about trusting yourself again after experiencing hurtful emotions from such a traumatic event. Then, if you decide to stay and work through your marriage successfully, that is a plus.
Maureen H
New York City
A Gift for all hearts - healed and healing!”
The author’s heart-centered approach and compassionate nature on the sensitive subjects of betrayal and infidelity clearly shine through in the writing. This combined with her raw authenticity, clever conveyance of experiential wisdom, and even her sense of humor kept me turning page after page.
The creative chapter layout and effortless flow of the information interwoven amongst quotes, journal prompts, and helpful resources make this both an easy read and a personal guidebook to keep handy for future reference. Her recap at the end of numerous examples in music, books, movies, and media events of the subliminal programming being fed to the culture scape about the complexities and nuances of these subjects and their effect on the human experience is second to none.
This is clearly a must-read for anyone with personal or professional skin in the game on this topic!
Ellen Imbiano
LMHC, CSAT, CPTT
Partner betrayal trauma has become far too common.
It is vital for those seeking help to have a valuable resource at a time when they are
most vulnerable.
Ms. Cardenas offers hope at a time when hope is in short supply.
Though this is one of the most difficult of life’s challenges, with time and proper support, healing can happen. [She] covers a range of topics that fit into small, digestible chapters. This gives the reader confidence that getting through the early stage of discovery is achievable and that positive growth is attainable.
More reviews on Amazon for:
"Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal: What to Do When Your World Falls Apart."
Lola
Reviewed in the United States on March 19, 2023
Verified Purchase
I simply had to share my profound experience reading Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal. As someone who has personally endured the excruciating pain of betrayal, I cannot overstate how much this book has meant to me. The author's writing is incredibly powerful and moving - it's as if she knows me and my struggles intimately. I found myself feeling validated and hopeful in ways that I didn't even know were possible.
The book is filled with invaluable insights and practical tools that can help anyone who is dealing with betrayal. I could feel the author's heart and soul in every word, and I am deeply appreciative of the empathy and understanding she brings to this complex topic. I especially appreciated the concise and straightforward approach to each chapter. The author spoke in a way that felt grounded in personal experience, rather than bogged down in scientific theory or jargon. It made me feel like I was receiving guidance from a trusted friend who truly "gets it."
Whether you're someone who has experienced the heartbreak of betrayal firsthand, or a counselor/therapist who works with those who have, I cannot recommend this book enough. It has been nothing short of transformative for me, and I know it has the potential to help countless others who are facing similar challenges.
Joe-Joe AZ
Reviewed in the United States on March 20, 2023
Verified Purchase
This is a book to get you through some of the darkest days of couple hood. Whether you can forgive and move forward, or move forward alone, this book helps you move forward after having the rug pulled out from under you.
Gee G
Reviewed in the United States on March 13, 2023
Verified Purchase
Vanessa put into words what everyone who is betrayed by their partner, their husbands or their boyfriend needs to hear.
How to pick a up and rebuild yourself after a trauma happens to you.
Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal is an exceptional book that has brought me immense comfort and clarity on my journey toward healing. As someone who has suffered the pain of betrayal, I cannot recommend this book enough to anyone who is looking for guidance and support.
What struck me most about this book was the author's ability to write with such empathy and understanding. She speaks directly to the reader with a warmth and sensitivity that makes it feel like she's right there with you, holding your hand through the pain. Her insights are grounded in personal experience, which makes the book relatable and accessible to anyone who has experienced betrayal.
Each chapter is packed with practical tools and advice that can help you navigate the complex emotions and challenges that come with betrayal. What I loved about this book was how it made me feel less alone in my struggles. It reminded me that healing is a process and that it's okay to take the time you need to work through your emotions and find a path forward.
Overall, I believe that Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal is a must-read for anyone who has been affected by betrayal. It's a compassionate and insightful guide that can help you find your way back to hope and healing, and I know it has the potential to help countless others who are facing similar challenges. If you're looking for a resource that can offer you support and guidance through the pain of betrayal, this book is definitely worth checking out.
Steve Catapano
Reviewed in the United States on March 16, 2023
Verified Purchase
Vanessa Cardenas' book, "Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal," is a comprehensive guide for individuals who have experienced betrayal in their relationships. The book covers a wide range of topics related to infidelity, including the different types of betrayal, the emotional and psychological impacts on the betrayed partner, and practical steps for healing and moving forward.
Cardenas provides a compassionate and supportive approach throughout the book, acknowledging the pain and trauma that comes with betrayal while also offering practical tools and exercises to help readers process their emotions and begin the healing process. She draws on her own personal experiences as well as her expertise as a certified coach and trusted advisor to offer insights and guidance that are both empathetic and grounded in evidence-based research. Even if you are not the victim of betrayal but want to understand the pain associated with this trauma, you will get tremendous insight from her experiences and insights.
Overall, "Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal" is an invaluable resource for anyone who has experienced infidelity in their relationship. Cardenas' clear and compassionate writing style, combined with practical exercises and strategies, make this book an essential guide for those seeking to heal and move forward from the trauma of betrayal.
More reviews on Amazon for:
"Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal: What to Do When Your World Falls Apart."
Lola
Reviewed in the United States on March 19, 2023
Verified Purchase
I simply had to share my profound experience reading Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal. As someone who has personally endured the excruciating pain of betrayal, I cannot overstate how much this book has meant to me. The author's writing is incredibly powerful and moving - it's as if she knows me and my struggles intimately. I found myself feeling validated and hopeful in ways that I didn't even know were possible.
The book is filled with invaluable insights and practical tools that can help anyone who is dealing with betrayal. I could feel the author's heart and soul in every word, and I am deeply appreciative of the empathy and understanding she brings to this complex topic. I especially appreciated the concise and straightforward approach to each chapter. The author spoke in a way that felt grounded in personal experience, rather than bogged down in scientific theory or jargon. It made me feel like I was receiving guidance from a trusted friend who truly "gets it."
Whether you're someone who has experienced the heartbreak of betrayal firsthand, or a counselor/therapist who works with those who have, I cannot recommend this book enough. It has been nothing short of transformative for me, and I know it has the potential to help countless others who are facing similar challenges.
Joe-Joe AZ
Reviewed in the United States on March 20, 2023
Verified Purchase
This is a book to get you through some of the darkest days of couple hood. Whether you can forgive and move forward, or move forward alone, this book helps you move forward after having the rug pulled out from under you.
Gee G
Reviewed in the United States on March 13, 2023
Verified Purchase
Vanessa put into words what everyone who is betrayed by their partner, their husbands or their boyfriend needs to hear.
How to pick a up and rebuild yourself after a trauma happens to you.
Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal is an exceptional book that has brought me immense comfort and clarity on my journey toward healing. As someone who has suffered the pain of betrayal, I cannot recommend this book enough to anyone who is looking for guidance and support.
What struck me most about this book was the author's ability to write with such empathy and understanding. She speaks directly to the reader with a warmth and sensitivity that makes it feel like she's right there with you, holding your hand through the pain. Her insights are grounded in personal experience, which makes the book relatable and accessible to anyone who has experienced betrayal.
Each chapter is packed with practical tools and advice that can help you navigate the complex emotions and challenges that come with betrayal. What I loved about this book was how it made me feel less alone in my struggles. It reminded me that healing is a process and that it's okay to take the time you need to work through your emotions and find a path forward.
Overall, I believe that Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal is a must-read for anyone who has been affected by betrayal. It's a compassionate and insightful guide that can help you find your way back to hope and healing, and I know it has the potential to help countless others who are facing similar challenges. If you're looking for a resource that can offer you support and guidance through the pain of betrayal, this book is definitely worth checking out.
Steve Catapano
Reviewed in the United States on March 16, 2023
Verified Purchase
Vanessa Cardenas' book, "Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal," is a comprehensive guide for individuals who have experienced betrayal in their relationships. The book covers a wide range of topics related to infidelity, including the different types of betrayal, the emotional and psychological impacts on the betrayed partner, and practical steps for healing and moving forward.
Cardenas provides a compassionate and supportive approach throughout the book, acknowledging the pain and trauma that comes with betrayal while also offering practical tools and exercises to help readers process their emotions and begin the healing process. She draws on her own personal experiences as well as her expertise as a certified coach and trusted advisor to offer insights and guidance that are both empathetic and grounded in evidence-based research. Even if you are not the victim of betrayal but want to understand the pain associated with this trauma, you will get tremendous insight from her experiences and insights.
Overall, "Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal" is an invaluable resource for anyone who has experienced infidelity in their relationship. Cardenas' clear and compassionate writing style, combined with practical exercises and strategies, make this book an essential guide for those seeking to heal and move forward from the trauma of betrayal.
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